Many of my friends and family from out-of-town have asked for the engagement story and since I’m not sick of telling it yet (and probably never will be since he did such a great job of surprising me), here it goes!
Vital Story Background
Me and Mister started dated three years ago during the Thanksgiving of 2008. Since it was around Christmas time, he asked me on a romantic city date to Minneapolis to watch the Hollidazzle parade and for dinner downtown afterwards.
Since it was about 5 degrees outside, he agreed to sit in front of one of my favorite downtown locations so that we could hop inside and outside….the downtown Barnes and Nobles.
SIDE NOTE: As many of you know, reading is something that I’m very passionate about. Browsing around bookstores is something that I find peaceful and that I find myself doing when I’m overwhelmed with life as a kind of meditation. Some people find that inner peace when they’re running or in a yoga class, but not me… it’s browsing book stores. : )
Well, this date ended up being the best that I had ever been on! We got to talk about books that I had read, books that I still wanted to read, hobbies that he liked while walking through the “Hobbies” section, current event topics and what our thoughts were on those…and we hadn’t even been out to dinner yet! This was the date that changed it all and it was when I fell in love with a person would end up being my fiance.
Fast Forward 2.5 Years to Today
He had asked me if I wanted to go on a bike trip the weekend over Labor Day to a town South of Minneapolis. Our summer had been very busy and we had not gotten a chance to get out-of-town and be away from everything. To say the least, we were both looking forward to that time away.
Then, during the week of Labor Day he asked me if I was interested in grabbing dinner in town Friday before heading out on Saturday, to which I said “sure”…not thinking anything of it.
Friday rolled around…we left the house for dinner and parked downtown in a strange spot. I insisted that he didn’t know where he was parking and kept suggesting that we park elsewhere. He kept telling me that he knew where he was parking, so I let it go since I’ve been working hard on not being a bossy little brat.
While walking down the street to our destination, M&S Grill, Adam gave me a card and insisted that I walk and read since we needed to make our reservations. Again, I didn’t think anything of it and kept up pace with him while reading and dodging through people.The card was sweet and had a message that was very special to me.
He then encouraged me to read the folded letter that was inside as well. The letter was one that I had written him on our one year anniversary about how special our relationship was to me. On the bottom of my letter it said “and I can’t believe that this all started for me on Hollidazzle in front of a Barnes and Nobles”.
He then told me to “stop!”. I said, “Stop reading or stop walking??”. Then this is what happened:
This is me getting to the end of the page where he told me to “stop”. I had my head down the entire time reading and didn’t really even have a clue where I was since we had parked in a strange location.
He then turned me around, and this was my expression upon realization that we were in front of “our” Barnes and Nobles.
That same instant he hit his knee and my mind went completely blank…I was so excited and surprised that I don’t even know what he said but I’m sure that it had something to do with marrying me! At this point, there were about 15 strangers and passerby’s gathered round watching the proposal.
‘This photo ended up being my favorite because it shows the insanity of being in a city and how we’re just lost in our own little world at this specific time and place…
Kudos to Joey for taking so many great photos!
By the time that I had kissed him and said “yes”, people had started clapping, congratulating us, and taking pictures of us with their cell phones. It was pretty unreal!
I still didn’t know at this point that there was anyone taking photos of us and was in utter bliss about what had just happened.
Here you can see a some of the people back on their route after seeing a surprise proposal that they probably hadn’t been expecting on a Friday night downtown!
Immediately after this he finally told me that our friends Joey, Kayla and Mike had been inside the bookstore window the whole time taking pictures. I guess that they had even “staked out” the location at lunch that day to ensure that everything would go smoothly!
I was so happy that all of my friends and family that live far away were able to see the shock on my face, along with the happiness that I feel so thank you so much to Joey, Kayla and Mike for being there and capturing the whole scene!
PS: The lady on the right was texting her friend after she had just taken a picture of us and told us enthusiastically that we had “made her week” ; ).
Here’s the Barnes and Nobles that now holds an even deeper spot in my heart.
SIDE NOTE:Look like I’ll need to put down my Kindle and start purchasing some more books in store so that my sweet memories don’t get taken away!
Here’s the shot that some of you have been asking for, the bling! As many of you know, he has better taste than I do when it comes to things like this so it is of no surprise that he impressed.
He even picked out a generic band so that I could pick my own since we had never been ring shopping or talked about what kind of ring I want. Always thinking…
And there you have it all folks, the story of how we got engaged! And I couldn’t have been a luckier girl to have found such a special guy that takes very good care of me!
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